Mutual Masturbation Techniques and Experiences Vol. 2

This page has been created to allow couples, heterosexual and lesbian, to share their mutual masturbation techniques and experiences. If you would like to share how you and your partner masturbate together you can do so by clicking here. You can include activities you do while together and during phone sex. Please limit your information to mutual masturbation.

Anonymous

When I saw that you had a mutual masturbation section I just had to write in!

My ex used to lay on her stomach and press the pads of her fingers and move the hood of her clit up and down and around her clit! She would be very calm and you could hardly tell she was doing anything. As her excitement rose she would start to lightly clench her ass cheeks together and press her hips down against her hand! I would be stroking my cock and caressing her ass cheeks as she did this! As she got more excited she would start to lift her hips off the bed more and her ass would stick up in the air. I knew then it was time to get more involved and I would begin to rub a finger tip over her pussy lips as thrust her ass up!

As her excitement rose more she would keep her ass up in the air for a few seconds which meant it was time for me to rub her pussy lips with my finger and then drag the fingertip over her "anus" (which is what she liked to call it when she was really horny). I would drag a moist finger over her pussy, that skin between her pussy and ass and then press the pad of my finger ever so gently into her anus! She would clench her ass cheeks together and hold my finger there, moan and then go back to humping her hand. When she got almost ready to cum she would raise her ass in the air and I would plunge my middle finger deep into her pussy and drag it over her anus and press and push it back into her pussy as her ass jerked against my hand! I would be stroking my cock getting ready to cum myself. She would look at me with those horny and glassy eyes and ask if i was ready! I would say yes where by she would clench her ass cheeks tight and cum against her hand. When she finished cumming she would smile and raise her ass in the air in expectation of my hot cum. I would press the head against her anus and shoot off on her ass hole and slightly rub it in. She would moan and squeeze her ass cheeks together to feel the hot cum oooze out. She then relaxed her cheeks and
shook them until my cum thinned out and ran down over her pussy.

Remembering this has my pumping my cock like crazy and I think I am going to cum soon! lol

Ruby

I teased him on the boat. My boyfriend Danny and I took an overnight ferry boat trip with my sister. The room has a double decked type bed on one side and a single bed on the other side. My sister and I got the double decked and I was below. Later when we were almost calling it a night, he whispered to me that he wants to see me play with myself. He had seen me before playing with myself to orgasm coz he was the one who taught me how to masturbate by rubbing my clit and caress my vulva till I had my first orgasm by masturbating in front of him, as he stroked and masturbated his gorgeous cock in front of me. It was an exciting experience coz I have never thought of masturbating in my entire life, much more masturbating in front of a man. I felt so sexy and so so hot spreading my legs oh so wide for him to devour me with his eyes as he watch me play with myself to orgasm. As each cum flowed out of me in silky wet delight, he also shoot his cum and landed in my wet hot pink pussy. I mixed his cum with mine and spread it all over my virgin pussy lips and clit. Delicious!

I decided I to tease him that night and give him a treat. I ask my sister to switch place with me so I will be on top of the double deck bed. I sat up on the bed and lean my back on the wall. I raised my skirt, removed my panties and spread open my legs to reveal my hot pink pussy. He watched me from across the room on his side of the bed with delight. With my legs wide open, I started to played with myself by rubbing my clit shaft and pressed my clit hood in a circular motion just like the way he taught me. I tucked my right hand under my right butt and reached out to spread open my pussy lips with my fingers. I started a slow up and down motion at my pussy lips. I rubbed my pussy hole with my fingers as if it was a cock. It felt good to see him watch me masturbate. I was so wet and so aroused that I want him to come near me, touch and suck my pussy himself, but I was afraid that my sister might notice it. So he just has to watch me play with myself from afar. He motioned me to plant a finger inside my pussy hole, I was so hot to see him watch me as I did it with my right index finger in an in and out motion and continue to rub my clit with the other. My body got so hot teasing him and playing with myself as I finger fucked my hot pink virgin pussy. I unhook my bra and raised my blouse to reveal my breast, I started rubbing my nipple in a circular motion the way I rubbed my clit and pussy lips. I was so hot masturbating and even hotter knowing someone was watching me play with myself.. My hot pussy just glisten with my pussy juice as I watched him got so aroused. He motioned me to lick the fingers that were going in and out of my pussy. I didn't hesitate a bit as I took them out of my pussy hole and sucked hard with my mouth. I tasted my pussy juice for the first time. It was sweet and tasty. I could see the bulge in his pants and imagine how hard and long his gorgeous cock would be by now.

My sister suddenly got up coz she wants to go to the bathroom outside our room. I stopped and covered myself till she was out of the door. My fiancée took no time to lock the door behind her and quickly moved to my bed. He stood in front of me and inserted his hand into my blanket and started rubbing my now very hot pussy. I took away his hand and leaned back against the wall. I spread my legs again to show him how wet I am and started playing with myself again by rubbing my clit and showed him spreading my pink pussy lips with my right hand fingers. I was so hot now that I could feel myself about to have my orgasm. I stared to rub my clit faster as the intensity build up. I could feel the warm flow of my juice inside rising to its peak as I opened my mouth and let out a deep cry and burst into an intense orgasm. He took that queue and stepped on the lower bed, opened my legs wide and went down on me. He sucked my pussy as I came hard with my pussy juice flowing out my virgin pussy hole. He sucked and licked my pussy and slurped my juice as my orgasm came one after the other continuously for more than a minute. I was so spend and so juice up that I just spread my legs wide and open my wet glistening pussy spreading in front of him. I wish we could be closer. Not being able to hug him as I came was totally new to me. I have always hugged him every time I orgasm since my first one.

Just then, my sister knocked on the door. I quickly covered myself with my blanket as he unlocked and opened the door for her. As if nothing had happened. I know he had a big hard on going to bed that night coz he was not able to come with me. I wished I could do something about it but the situation would not allow. But I know I owe him one and he knows he's gonna get it soon. But that's another story to tell.

Anonymous

One of my most memorable masturbation experiences was on a trip with my husband. We were stuck in traffic on the interstate. We had been discussing sex that would occur when we reached our destination. I had on a skirt without panties I slowly slipped my hand beneath my skirt and began to masturbate. We were in a small car. Other motorists could easily see inside. We continued to talk and I continued to masturbate. My husband rubbed my neck and drove. I prolonged the experience to over 30 minutes. This was 10 years ago and we still wonder if other motorists viewed our excitement! FYI...We were 42 years old at the time. We are 52 now and VERY active! He loves to watch me masturbate!

Anonymous

I like it when my husband has fucked me and his come is still inside me. I roll over onto my stomach and use the slipperiness of his come to make we wet while he rubs my clit with an up and down motion until I am really close. I know when it is about to happen as I press my stomach down towards the bed and he knows I am about to come and then he moves to put direct pressure on my clit and rubs pretty fast back and forth in a really rhythmic motion, actually it seems like he goes slower at this point, and I start to have my orgasm. He also likes to put his thumb inside me while he is rubbing my clit. His hands and fingers are pretty big so its almost like he is back inside me while he rubs my clit. I usually clench my legs together then and hold his hand there while I come. If he keeps rubbing me, I can usually come twice or more. Unfortunately it gets too sensitive and he can't keep making me come. I usually cry out too with a very deep almost growling sound he tells me.

The other way I like it is not really masturbation I guess, but through oral sex, my husband will use a big dildo and rub my lips and clit up and down and then use his tongue on my clit. He rubs back and forth, not up and down, and inserts his finger right deeply inside me and rubs somewhere that makes me really turned on and when the orgasm suddenly hits me, I have to pull away from his tongue. It takes my breath away and he can't even touch me anywhere after that. I shudder involuntarily every few seconds for about a minute after that.

Wim and Katrien II

We read all masturbating comments of the couples on this information page after our own comment here above.

Like we are addicted masturbators and practicing advanced masturbation as a married couple together since many years without intercourse's at all, we want to tell you we have an immense joy together and became craving for pleasures of masturbation. We recommend all couples searching for more or some special joys to practice this way. If the couple stops having intercourse for at least three months and changes sex life in exclusively together masturbating life (mutual or solo together!) a new world of joy will open to them, and after three months practice 2 or 3 times a week or more going on for hours always a bit longer, retaining orgasm so long as possible before squirting, the couple cannot return anymore to the normal sex life because the joy is much preferable and genitals will cry for more training.

Jagath

When I saw that you had a mutual masturbation section I just had to write in!

My ex used to lay on her stomach and press the pads of her fingers and move the hood of her clit up and down and around her clit! She would be very calm and you could hardly tell she was doing anything. As her excitement rose she would start to lightly clench her ass cheeks together and press her hips down against her hand! I would be stroking my cock and caressing her ass cheeks as she did this! As she got more excited she would start to lift her hips off the bed more and her ass would stick up in the air. I knew then it was time to get more involved and I would begin to rub a finger tip over her pussy lips as she thrust her ass up!

As her excitement rose more she would keep her ass up in the air for a few seconds which meant it was time for me to rub her pussy lips with my finger and then drag the fingertip over her "anus" (which is what she liked to call it when she was really horny). I would drag a moist finger over her pussy, that skin between her pussy and ass and then press the pad of my finger ever so gently into her anus! She would clench her ass cheeks together and hold my finger there, moan and then go back to humping her hand. When she got almost ready to cum she would raise her ass in the air and I would plunge my middle finger deep into her pussy and drag it over her anus and press and push it back into her pussy as her ass jerked against my hand! I would be stroking my cock getting ready to cum myself. She would look at me with those horny and glassy eyes and ask if I was ready! I would say yes where by she would clench her ass cheeks tight and cum against her hand. When she finished cumming she would smile and raise her ass in the air in expectation of my hot cum. I would press the head against her anus and shoot off on her asshole and slightly rub it in. She would moan and squeeze her ass cheeks together to feel the hot cum oooze out. She then relaxed her cheeks and shook them until my cum thinned out and ran down over her pussy.

Remembering this has my pumping my cock like crazy and I think I am going to cum soon! lol

Anna

After reading most of the stories on your masturbation experiences by visitors, I decided that I could tell you my experience, too.

As a 15 year-celibate, forced to sexless life after marriage I "resorted" to masturbating. It have been an amazing experience. I never felt that wonderful with my husband and his efforts to please me were weak. He just could not do it. He tried and we ended doing oral sex on each other first and then the "missionary."

Few months ago I met Craig. He told me kind of early that he is no good in bed, so I should not expect no great sex life. Well, I did not mind due to my renewed found "entertainment"of masturbating. I used to masturbate while in college. At first I did not tell him what I have been doing. I was kind of afraid, I guess.

One week end he asked me to go with him to visit a sick friend. I felt that was not only nice but very caring of him. We went to his cabin in the Sierra Mountains. The sick friend turned out to be his penis.

After entering the cabin Craig asked me if I wanted anything to eat. Well I was still expecting to see a person who was sick so I just wanted to talk.

Craig opened a bottle of vine and served it with sliced apples and cheese (while we waited?). I took few bites and asked him what was the plan. He just told to be patient. I tried. Few hours went by. We lit the fire place and had more food and wine. Eventually Craig started to "feel" hot so he removed all his clothing one by one. I was curious of his private parts and he was not at all bashful or shameful. Actually he sat on the floor right in front of me and I can see that he was not really attracted to me.

Then he simply suggested that if I felt too hot it was ok to remove any clothing too if I felt it necessary. I took of my sweater and shoes and socks first. Also opened the few more buttons of my shirt. I let my bra show but that did not seem to do anything to Craig. I felt slightly disappointed. Some how I wanted him to touch me already then.

There was a silence now on my part for awhile. I did not know what to do or say next. The following conversation took place, after awhile: "Anna, I have had erection problems but I have wanted to be with you so much ever since we met. I thought that this place could make me feel relax and I could help make your life a bit more pleasurable. Oh. Anna, you just don't know how my mind races when I think about all the sexy things we should be doing."

"Craig, I don't mind", I said. He did not seem to like that really, I could tell. So I continued:"How do you feel about masturbating?" "OK, I guess",he said, "I just never thought of really doing it. Do you do it?" "Well, I...I. Well, I kind of do", I said.

"Oh, that is a delicious idea. Lets do that. Can you show me how you do it? I always liked to watch people having sex. Can you do it for me?"

I felt self conscience over this so I said that I did not think I could. Craig then put his hands on his penis and said:" I will try to help this sick old friend to make this a sensual week end, perhaps you feel OK to join us."

I laughed. He was talking about his penis as his "Old Friend", the friend he wanted to see. I was all for it since I get pleasure too looking at private parts. So I was seeing his sick Old Friend after all.

I went closer to him and touched his penis. I wanted to care for this Old Friend. "Oh, that felt good. Can I have more TLC ?" I took his penis into my hands and squeezed it and he went Ahh, again. It felt nice to hold a penis in my hand. The softness of it skin was actually intoxicating. I wanted more. I wanted to be touched too. I did not say so, though. I actually love the silky feel of a penis.

I rubbed his penis for a while and I felt It come to "life". It grew into a nice pretty large vessel in my hands. "Oh, Anna. You do not know what this means to me. This feels wonderful. I want you. Do you want me?"

"I do but I am not ready", I said. Craig started to help me with my clothes and I did not resist. It actually felt right for him to do so. Eventually I was naked too. Craig had stayed hard during my disrobing. Nice! He did want me after all. Aaahh!

I said: "I think I could show you how I do myself'. He said: I can't wait to see". I could hear his husky voice was urging me to go on so I started. Slowly and gently I put my hand on to my vulva. I rubbed it up and down for a while slowly. Craig looked mesmerized. I opened my legs and let him see my "insides" when I wanted to touch my clit. I heard a sigh.

"Anna, is it all right to kiss it? I really need to have my lips on you, please let me kiss it." "OK", I said. He bent over to kiss me and his tongue was gently rubbing my clit. Ohh, what a heaven. He did this for about an hour, until I could not take it anymore. The explosion was unbelievable.

He was still erect and he wanted more. I rubbed him again and touched the tip of it and I kissed it too. Our emotions ran very high. The lust in both of us went wild. He started to rub me while I rubbed him and this time we cummed to together.

"Ohh, Thank you. I haven't had sex like this since I was a teenager", he said. Craig took me in his arms and put his hand over my vulva and kept on rubbing. I got seven or eight orgasms with him this way. I felt exhausted but happy. He was so unlike my husband, no hurry, no need to finish, just enjoy the moment.

We eventually covered up with blankets and tried to rest but by now Craig was ready again. He actually had an erection without assistance (I wanted to do that again for him). He said that I made him feel good and we made good team.

We pleasured each other this way the whole week end and we did end up having an intercourse at the end of the week, because I felt that my experience was not complete without it. I do not recall being that tired ever.

Needless to say we are now nightly masturbators or suckers or what ever we feel we want, I did not know that at my age (60) I could enjoy sex this much. We have invested on material to try in our efforts to enjoy life's pleasures and one another.

Anna 60 and Craig 65 say thank you for letting us share.

Lightouch

I've masturbated since about 12yo but was introduced to mutual masturbation when I was in my mid teens during World War II by a woman of 28 whose husband was overseas. I used to sit with her evenings to keep her company. It started when she began to breast-feed her baby in my company. She said from the look of the bulge in my trousers her breasts excited me. We went on to talk about sex and later that evening she undid her blouse and invited me to caress her tits (her words) this I did and we both became horny. The next evening after the babe was in bed she again undid her blouse and bra and told me how much she enjoyed me playing with her breasts. She then proceed to pull up her skirt and had left her knickers off. She guided my had between her legs, she was wet and slippery. At this stage I was introduced to her clitoris, which she referred to as the "little man in a boat." A description I have used with many women since. We never engaged in activities involving penetration, but I learnt how to excite women. She's long gone but many women have befitted from what she taught me as a young lad; my long lasting marriage still does.

Angela & James

My name is Angela and I would like to share my story. First off I would like to say this site is great! I've only known about it for a short time, but I've spent alot of time on it. The person that told me about it, is the person I will be telling you about now. His name is James and we "met" through the internet. Our conversations started out very casual and we had a lot in common. It didn't take long for them to turn to sex though. I still remember the first time we had phone sex, it was amazing! That was 4 1/2 yrs ago and we still talk almost every day. We lost contact for awhile but I am very glad to say we found each other again. We've gotten very close lately and our mutual masturbation sessions have gotten very intense and a lot more intimate. With just his words he has helped me achieve orgasms that were so strong I thought I was gonna pass out. I have never achieved that with anyone I was with physically (not even my ex, who I was with for 8 yrs!). He has never even touched me, but he knows exactly what turns me on and he can always tell when I cum just by the sounds I make, he knows me (and my body) so well. We have viewed each other masturbating on our web cams and exchanged private pics of each other. We will be on the phone and the cam at the same time and that can get really intense. Sometimes I will use my vibrators or other objects (which really turns him on) when I'm on my cam for him but most of the time I can achieve amazing orgasms just using my hands. He doesn't always have to watch me masturbating, he likes it just as much to be watching my face as I cum for him. He loves it when I describe to him in detail exactly what I want to do to him and I love it when he talks really dirty to me. A lot of people may not understand our relationship and the closeness we share but it's real and the feelings are very strong. Over the years we've become extremely close and have grown to truely care about each other and love each other. I am happy to say that we will finally be meeting each other in person at the end of next month. We are both extremely excited just to see each other and to bring to life everything we have talked about and shared over the phone. I know it's going to be amazing. I will be back on here after we meet to let you know how great it was. April 24th, 2007

Anonymous

I lay on the bed with my legs spread apart and my partner is right next to me. I take his hand and insert his forefinger into my hot pussy up to my clit and move it around in slow circles. With my other hand I grab his cock which is already getting very hard and start to stroke it. My clit is ready to explode with ripples of orgasmic pleasure as he keeps going round and round with just the right pressure. His cock is getting bigger and we are both ready to cum. We scream out in mutual pleasure and orgasmic release as his cum shoots over my belly.

Coco

I am in a long distance relationship, and my fiance and I are a very horny couple. Because we don't see each other everyday, we have phone sex. I use my electric toothbrush on my clit as he talks dirty to me on the phone until I explode. When we are together, I sometimes use my toothbrush as he fucks me....OMG....ITS THE BEST OOOOOOOOO ever....I recommend soundproofing your walls!!

Anonymous

My wife enjoys using my rock hard penis as her fleshy dildo to self masturbate.

She will use my penis dildo for over an hour bringing herself to orgasmic climax many times, I have to use large self control not to ejaculate all over her and ending her enjoyment. She knows how hard I self control myself and she takes great joy in watching me fight ejaculation in agony as she uses my hard pulsing penis for self masturbation time after time. After each of her climatic orgasms I gently massage her breasts giving her the deep desire for another orgasm self induced using my trusty penis. While she is using my hard penis as her throbbing dildo it is never penetrated into her vagina for more than just a few seconds in her rhythmical use of my resistant penis in her hands as a pulsating dildo largely messaging her clit.

My wife will do this many times for more than an hour, taking me to many un-ejaculated orgasms, until she takes me into uncontrolled agony when I can no longer fight my own paramount climatic orgasm and I come all over her as she is still using my solid penis as her fleshy dildo.

Kristee and Jesse

My boyfriend and I live about 6,000 miles apart, so we can't be together in person very often (it'll actually be almost another year until we can meet up again face-to-face). Thanks to the miracle of instant messaging, we still talk a lot but if either of us gets really horny (and, being teenagers, this does happen quite a bit) there's not really anything we can do involving the other person. We often send each other little "flirts", where we take turns writing little erotic scenes between the two of us, but last night we decided to try something different. Initially the plan was for us to both have our web cams on, me sitting back on my bed to masturbate in just a t-shirt while he stood nude in front of his camera to give me something to look at (and of course to watch me on the screen). After a few minutes of watching me tease my clit, he was masturbating too, I took the shirt off, and then we were just watching each other. I thought him watching me would be the hottest thing, but being able to watch him touching himself while knowing that he was watching me do the same was almost more than I could stand! I came relatively quickly and while I was catching my breath I watched him have the most intense orgasm I've seen him have. His jaw went slack, his head fell back and, though the sound wasn't on, I wouldn't have been surprised if he'd screamed. I wanted to cum again after seeing that, and he watched while I continued to rub my clit and inner lips (thought I was almost too wet at this point to create much friction) until, shaking, I came hard. It was one of the most amazing experiences of my life, couldn't have been better unless he was here in person (so he could help me out a little more xP). I would totally recommend something like this to any couple willing to try it, and I'd tell other long-distance couples to consider investing in some web cams. They're relatively cheap, they really are the next best thing to in person, and think about the possibilities...

Michelle

I too think this site is great in the discussion and tips on masturbation. I am 25 years old and only last month did I have an experience that was on the same level as my first experience. Like some, I too am waiting till marriage to have sex with my husband; however, I am human and also get horny. My boyfriend has been very understanding, but at times gets frustrated.

On this particular day, I was feeling exceptional horny and told my boyfriend that he could lay next to me on the bed while I masturbated under the covers (I really didn't want him to see me naked prior to the wedding night). As I started, I was already wet just at the thought of him in the same room with me much less in the bed as I was rubbing myself. I was covered with the blanket only exposing my head. My boyfriend way laying to my right and had started to kiss my neck, moving to my cheek and ears. The intensity grew and I now found myself with two fingers in and out of my pussy. I then heard whispered in my ear my boyfriend say that he wished his friend Irving could have watched also. Without hesitation, my thoughts immediately put Irving to my left side also kissing on my neck and ears. With this new fantasy in my head, I was vigorously rubbing my pussy and worked my way to my anus. My boyfriend then pulled the covers down to my stomach, exposing both of my tits. He then started to suck on my right nipple while pinching my left one. I wanted to tell him to stop, but instead found myself imagining Irving sucking on my left nipple. I kicked off the blanket and found myself slapping my pussy lips in a complete frenzy. I then blurted out that I wished Irving was here also, so you could both suck on my nipples. And nothing could have prepared me for his response, which was that they could suck on the same nipple. Oh my goodness! For whatever reason that was so hot to me, that my boyfriend was suggesting bisexual acts with him and another guy. I pulled him closer as he began to grind on my leg, while fingering myself. I began to visualize him sucking on Irving's cock to the point I came like never before. It was strange to me because I had never even thought about that before, but I wasn't opposed to seeing it. I hope to be able to tell you another story......

Carrina and Jonathan

I have yet to experience the intensity that all of the above stories of mutual masturbation is concerned. I'm in the process of letting go of some inhibitions as I've never shared mutual masturbation with anyone as far as pleasing ourselves in front of each other is concerned. I plan on changing that. I got off to a good start last night.

The thought of self pleasuring in front of my boyfriend is an erotic fantasy for me. We're in a long distance relationship, but when we're together the sex is amazing. I get an orgasm every time now. Most of the time when we do see each other is via web cam. We frequently talk about what we want to do to each other and he loves it when i do a strip tease for him.

Last night when I was dancing for him via web cam he mentioned that he was close to orgasm, so I took that opportunity to push my own boundaries and dance more erotically. I began moving my hips and swaying around while caressing my body. I continued with the swaying movements and began massaging my breasts. And next while I was massaging one breast with one hand I was caressing my body up and down my sides and between my breasts down to my belly. I continued on with the swaying movements and and moved both hands back to my breasts, held them up and kneaded and played with my nipples.

Next while continuing with the swaying, I added even more hip action to the dance and kept one hand rubbing and playing with my breasts and nipples, my other hand slowly moved downward and I opened my vulva lips with my 2nd and 3rd fingers. While doing that I placed one leg on the chair to spread them farther apart and to get closer to the screen. Both hands now were between my legs spreading apart the lips and I added some thrusting movements with my hips along with circular motions.

I wasn't quite ready to stimulate myself for him as what I was doing already took some guts on my part. I was fighting my inhibitions so I wasn't as aroused as I may have been, however when I write about it now I'm getting very aroused and wet. He liked the dance and hopefully I'll be able to give him more next time as the thought of it right now is getting me going.

Lynn

I find that there is nothing more exciting than sitting in my chair in my bedroom with my legs draped over the chair-arms and exploring my body while watching my lover stroke himself off (by watching me). Seeing his excitement literally swell up from within, and knowing I cause it, gets me soaked. I can have several orgasms before he can finish. It's a very good way to start an evening.

Wellsoff

My ex-partner and I used to start off by peeing on each other. It sounds weird but its fun. She would straddle me and let out little squirts to get me hard. Once hard, I would get on top and do the same to her. We would both masturbate for a little while then pee on each other again. We would always masturbate right to the point of climax then jump up top of each other and have the best sex. Each time felt like the first.

Mallard

My wife and I have been together for 9 years.

I am able to find her 'G' spot within her vagina, and her anus... The fun thing, is that I can also find it while she lays on her back. I can massage right above where her spot is an make her feel so good. (outside on her lower tummy)

Thank you for this site. I have been with 4 women in my life, I am now 40. My wife has been with many, many men. I know more about her anatomy than she does. This is a great factual site that lets both of us learn together.

Our sex and general enjoyment of ourselves sexual and non sexual, has been a lot of fun lately. It is great to understand what makes arousal feel good... Sometimes it is not a penis and a vagina. sometimes it is just the thought of love and really great understandings. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE slow cunnilingus, but, that is not the best thing in an evening/morning/life.

My wife can get the best orgasm ever when we both find ourselves with manual arousal (That does include kisses).

Joe

A ladyfriend and I were relaxing one night, sipping one and sharing a smoke, and the conversation somehow got around to masturbation. We were talking about techniques, and things we fantasized about while masturbating, and when I told her that I almost always fantasize that I'm with a woman who is masturbating with me, she teasingly suggested that we should try it!

To make a long story short, we did follow our instincts and, after some initial shyness, found ourselves engaged in an incredibly erotic shared masturbation session. We wound up stretch out on the sofa together, lying at opposite ends and facing each other with our legs crossing one another's. She brought out her favorite vibrator, and provided me with a bottle of massage oil, which I poured generously over my shaft and balls.

We masturbated together like that for close to an hour, during which she enjoyed several very intense and obviously pleasurable orgasms. The whole while I just stroked myself slowly, building up the pressure, and when my time finally came, I could not believe how intense and powerful it was!

We had a number of similar sessions, experimenting in different ways, but always restricting ourselves to masturbation and exploring ways in which we could intenseify our orgasms together. We even bought a set of anal beads, and used them on each other while the recipient contined to masturbate. All I can say about that is "INCREDIBLY PLEASURABLE!"

She has since moved to the other side of the country, but we still continue to share an occassional masturbation session together using Yahoo Messenger chat and webcam. It really is the next best thing to being there!

Kai

My boyfriend and I love masturbating together. I find it such a turn-on on when he's watching me as I pleasure myself, and then he starts pleasuring himself as well. I rub my clit while he rubs his cock. I feel so exposed when I do it in front of him because masturbation is such a personal act, and I feel that doing it together heightens the intimacy between us. I love the expression on his face when I moan. He gets turned on even more and he'll increase the speed at which he's rubbing his cock and then I get turned on even more. It's like a spiral and it's great when we both climax together. I love turning him on. After that I'll let him come in my mouth and then I swallow. Sometimes that's the end of the sex act, but sometimes we continue to do other things as well.

I find that starting off a session with mutual masturbation is one of the best things ever, at least for me. I get all turned on, and my pussy gets wet, which is brilliant for when he starts touching or licking me. Also, my clit is much more sensitive and touching it feels more pleasurable after some masturbation, so when he goes down on me after we've masturbated for a while together...the feeling is just so much more explosive. Mutual masturbation, oral and then penetration. That's the way I like it. :)

Anonymous

My ex and I spent more time masturbating together than any other form of sexual activity. She wasn’t able to achieve orgasm by vaginal penetration but only by masturbation either by herself or with my help. I was so inexperienced in knowing what to do so she had to show me; up, down, round and around, fast or slow, exactly the way she wanted it done. My first attempt was pitiful but improved as time went on. She was always very vocal and used to tell me to make her feel like a tart.

She loved me to lick her pussy lips and suck her clit until it popped out from the hood and got good and wet to get her started. Then she would suck my cock until it got rock hard and the first bit of pre-cum would dribble out from the head. We would then lie at opposite ends on our backs until our genitals were level so she could start pumping my cock and I could finger her clit at the same time. We learnt self-control this way as she knew if I came too soon the fun would be over. She never wanted me to stop fingering her and could orgasm 4 or 5 times before I shot my load all over her tummy and tits. We would rest for awhile before starting all over again.

She had her favourite, using the head of my cock to stroke her big clit that would protrude to become fully erect. This always made her ejaculate soaking my cock with her hot cum by plunging it inside mixing our juices together when I came. After resting she would ask me to jerk her off by using a finger and thumb to squeeze and pump her clit until she came again. I found this to be exciting being able to jerk her clit up and down like a cock.

That lady really liked masturbating moreso than any other woman I have known. Just the thought of sex started her off fingering her slit until her panties were soaked, insisting we do it together as watching her doing it made me horny. I really miss that lady and wish she was here right now.

Wayne and Kaye

My wife and I have been married for 14 years and we just started touching ourselves in front of each other. It all started last Christmas Eve when we were having great sex. I asked her afterwards what she thought about while I touched her and made love to her. After walking through some embarrassment she said she thought about the times we had made love, and she thought about things she would like to try. I said, Like what? to which she talk about a few places in the house she would like to have sex, but then she surprised me. She said she wanted to undress in front of my while I masturbated. I said really, she said she did not know how to ask but that was not all, she said she wanted to masturbate for me.

Some six months later almost every time we have sex we masturbate in some form for each other, but what really turns us both on is when she or I uses the head of my hard penis to bring her to orgasm.