Carol Queens: Great Vibrations - An Explicit Consumer Guide to Vibrators.

This video features Carol Queen. Watch as she demonstrates the use of several different vibrators, more than ten. No where else will you see a woman play with so many different sex toys in one video while obviously enjoying herself so immensely. You get the added benefit of being able to see her have several orgasms. During two of her orgasms she ejaculates. She shows you her genitals while naming all its different parts. She is a bit of an exhibitionist and is quite entertaining to watch. She is just plain fun to watch in this video and in "Learning to Female Ejaculate", see below. 55 minutes. Available from The-Clitoris.com.

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How to Female Ejaculate

Fanny Fatale and three other women demonstrate female ejaculation. The anatomy and physiology of female ejaculation are discussed and demonstrated. You get to watch four different women masturbate to orgasm, each in her own way. They discuss their experiences and feelings regarding female ejaculation. The one girl, Shannon, appears to be squirting urine verses ejaculating, since she squirts so much, and so many times. She has an interesting personality as well. Carol Queen is also featured. Each woman demonstrates her technique, and the toys that work best for her. 60 minutes. Proceeds from the sale of this video help support this website. Available from The-Clitoris.com.

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Safe is Desire

This video features and was produced by lesbians. It addresses the topic of safe lesbian sex in the era of AIDs. The hottest sex does not involve the two main characters, but rather the supporting cast, in my opinion. In a series of scenes that take place in a lesbian sex club, women of all types, femmy femmes to leather dykes, get involved in some serious sex. The diversity of the lesbian women shown is perhaps one of the best aspects of the video. Oral, dildo, strap-on, group, bondage and S&M sex is shown. (If the sight of a woman whipping the back, and slapping the face of another woman bothers you, do not get this video. This scene is short in any case.) The use of dental dams, condoms, and plastic wrap for safe sex is demonstrated. Approximately 50 minutes. Available from Fatale Video. Fatale produces and sells other lesbian videos as well.

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Tantric Journey to Female Orgasm: Unveiling the G-Spot & Female Ejaculation

Presented from the perspective of Tantric sex and Goddess ritual, female sexual pleasure, orgasm, and ejaculation are addressed. A male Tantric sexual healer guides a postmenopausal female Tantric teacher in sexual healing through communication and sexual massage. The woman relieves negative energy and emotions while crying prior to experiencing sexual pleasure and emotional release through orgasm and ejaculation. Her face becomes full of joy and happiness after experiencing orgasm and ejaculation, after not having been able to for an extended period of time. This couple demonstrates the importance of communication during sex and the benefits of maintaining eye-to-eye contact with your partner. The second couple demonstrates female genital massage and cunnilingus, including orgasm, prior to intercourse and penile massage. The woman then sits in her partner's lap and using a Crystal Wand, a S-shaped acrylic dildo, masturbates to orgasm and ejaculation. The camera focuses on her vulva, allowing you to see her full puffy inner labia and hood, her clitoris though hidden from view is obviously erect. Includes an interview with Dr. Gary Schubach who has studied female ejaculation. Written and directed by Deborah Sundahl, who is also known as Fanny Fatal, see above. Deborah has a website, Isis Media. 75 minutes. Proceeds from the sale of video help support this website. Available from The-Clitoris.com.

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Viva la Vulva: Women's Sex Organs Revealed

This is Betty Dodson's third video. The video does not feature female orgasm but is extremely important to female sexual pleasure and happiness never the less. Betty and ten additional women show off their vulva for the camera and viewer. They have come together for genital portraits, and to celebrate the twenty-five-years Betty has spent educating men and women about female sexuality and pleasure. The women discuss their vulvas and their relationship with them, or lack of a relationship. Many women have negative experiences involving their vulva during childhood and puberty, often as a result of exploring their vulva and being observed by an adult who then reprimands them. This video is aimed at helping women, and their partner, to love their vulva and to acknowledge its beauty. The video seeks to help women feel comfortable with the idea of showing off and touching their vulva, privately and with a partner or friend. Genital massage and full body massage is demonstrated as well. At the end of the video the women create works of art out of the photographs taken of their vulva. Since this video does not feature "sex" many may be reluctant to purchase it, this is unfortunate as it is perhaps more important than the videos that feature female orgasm and masturbation. This is because if a woman does not love her vulva, she is less likely to experience her full sexual potential. 51 minutes. Proceeds from the sale of video help support this website. Available from The-Clitoris.com.

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Bend Over Boyfriend (BOB)

This video is not about female orgasm, it is about women assuming a dominant or controlling roll during partner sex. There is a significant and empowering mental transformation that occurs when a woman assumes the roll of the penetrator versus the penetrated. She is no longer making room within her body for her partner, but rather she is requiring the same of her partner. This surprisingly popular video explores the idea of men allowing and wanting their female partner to penetrate them anally with a strap-on dildo, as well as exploring anal pleasure in general. The mechanics of anal sex presented apply to all couples regardless of gender or sexual orientation, and regardless of the orifices being penetrated. Many women are afraid to strap on a dildo for fear of being seen as masculine. This video demonstrates that a woman can still be very feminine even when she has a penis. Remember ladies, you already have a penis of your own, you are merely exploring the idea of having a larger one. Men are often curious to explore anal penetration and fellatio, but are not interested in sex with another man for fear of being labeled a homosexual. The popularity of "she-male" themed websites, magazines, and videos document how some men are curious about having sex with someone that has both breasts and a penis. As long as their partner has a feminine identity and appearance some men seem comfortable exploring and utilizing her penis. Other men do not want to be the one controlling what happens every time, they want their partner to assume a more aggressive role during sex, and this allows this to occur. Carol Queen is in this video and she is apparently the only woman who experiences orgasm. Female orgasm is possible since the base of the dildo can be positioned to rub against the clitoris and some dildos have a place to insert a small egg shaped vibrator. The mental orgasm a woman experiences during this form of sex may be more enjoyable than a physical orgasm. The men experience intense sexual pleasure through penetration, not just through orgasm and ejaculation. The men are obviously enjoying themselves even when their penis is not erect. 60 minutes. Proceeds from the sale of video help support this website. Available from Available from The-Clitoris.com.

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Bend Over Boyfriend 2: More Rockin' Less Talkin'

The first video was so popular they produced a second. As the title states, the video features more couples having sex and less instructional discussion. This video presents four couples and a threesome in five different scenes. They explore role-playing where the woman is in control and dominating, as well as casual sex. A couple of the women become very aggressive during role-playing. This video features cunnilingus, fellatio, vaginal penetration, and both male and female anal penetration. During the threesome the two women also use a strap-on dildo together. If after watching the first video you want to see more, and have practiced the basics, gets some more ideas from this video. As expected Carol Queen experiences a couple orgasms, and possibly Chloe, she is a professional adult video star. Be sure to watch the closing credits for some funny bloopers. 80 minutes. Proceeds from the sale of video help support this website. Available from Libida.com.

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Hard Love & How to Fuck in High Heels

A lesbian produced video featuring real lesbian sex that is scorching hot. Simply put, it puts the majority of mainstream videos to shame with its quality and intensity while including genuine female orgasm. If you want to see some hot sex, regardless of your sexual preference, this video is for you. The producers of this video honed their skills while working on some of the videos mentioned above. The first part of the video features two lesbian couples that are exploring new relationships together while two of the characters are struggling through their separation. Two of the characters are feminine; the other two are masculine, butches with strap-ons. Jackie Strano, one of the creators and directors of the video, does a scene where she strokes her penis with one hand while stroking her clitoris with the other. In the process she has an intense orgasm and treats the viewer to a mind-bending experience. The other butch woman reminds me of a teenage boy about to have sex for the first time, she has an orgasm as well while receiving fellatio. These butches demonstrate that you can be "butch" and still have breasts, and share your orgasms with a partner. The feminine women are attractive and energetic. The couples and their relationships are what you may expect of two heterosexual couples in a similar situation. Indeed their sexual relationships fit the “heterosexual” stereotype much more than they do the “lesbian” stereotype. The first part of the video features striptease, vaginal finger play, vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse, mutual masturbation, and fellatio. The second part of the video features feminine Shar Rednour, the other creator and director of the video, using her strap-on to give pleasure to other women, while as the title implies, wearing high heels. It is a comical, tongue and cheek, yet informative and entertaining tutelage on how to use a strap-on. A cornucopia of lesbian characters engage in some very naughty sex with Shar. These are not the girls next door. If you are tired of anorexic bleach blondes with over-sized breasts, these “real” women are an interesting change of pace. Shar both straps on a dildo and is on the receiving end during various scenes. Shar changes her dildo to fit the various scenes and meet the needs of her partners; one gal wants something bigger and gets it. In one scene, Shar slips her entire hand into her partner's vagina and brings her to a seriously intense orgasm. (U.S. laws do not allow the showing of "fisting" but you are shown enough to know it actually takes place.) There is some campy foot and star worship as well. The second part of this video features fellatio, vaginal intercourse, cunnilingus, analingus, fisting, and foot worship. Because of the emotional intensity involved it is easy to forget the penises in this video are not organic. Some of these lesbians know how to perform fellatio better than most heterosexual porn stars and exhibit more emotional involvement while doing so. Some scenes do not contain nudity or close-up genital shots of penetration, which just makes you more acutely aware of the intensity of the scene. Regardless of whether you are heterosexual or lesbian you can learn a lot from this video about giving your partner pleasure. A steamy 96 minutes. Available from Good Vibrations and S.I.R. Productions.

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Goddess Worship, Volume 1: Lilith

This is a wonderful video that demonstrates how to give a woman intense pleasure with your hands and mouth while forming an intimate connection. It incorporates many of the principles and techniques presented on this website. It focuses on a woman's pleasure, not penile/vaginal intercourse, which makes it perfect for couples that are not interested in viewing porn. The video presents Tantric principles. Tantra is basically the achievement of physical and emotional intimacy through physical and spiritual connection. This video takes place in a tropical water setting, features an attractive man and woman, and a pleasant musical soundtrack. The colors are vivid. Communication is a very large part of this video. The woman is always actively in control and her partner is always asking for guidance and permission. He asks, she guides. This is about her pleasure and his sole purpose for the moment is to fulfill her wants and desires. When he becomes distracted she refocuses his attentions. The breathing and touching exercises demonstrated bring about focus, connection, and relaxation, i.e. intimacy; do not dismiss them as hocus-pocus because the techniques have Tantric names and seem odd to the Western way of thinking. Once the couple is focused on one another, they begin a full body massage that incorporates oral stimulation, but not stimulation of the vulva. The purpose of the massage is to connect with a woman’s entire body, not just her sexual organs, and bring about relaxation. Long connecting strokes are shown and this helps tie the body together, so she does not feel as though she has disjointed body parts; there is more to a woman than her breasts and vulva. Communication is always maintained, demonstrating how a woman can receive sexual pleasure while guiding her partner through verbal guidance; talking does not take away from the experience. Once she is fully relaxed and ready, they begin a yoni (yo-nee), vulvar, massage and cunnilingus. She guides him in every detail, clearly explaining her wants. She has well defined genital structures that are easy to identify and visually pleasing. When she is appropriately aroused he asks permission to entering her body with his finger(s). G-Spot stimulation in then demonstrated and the texture of the vaginal wall and G-Spot during arousal are discussed. She then proceeds to have an intense orgasm. She does not ejaculate, but her female fluids are clearly visible on his fingers. She then experiences an emotional release during G-Spot stimulation; that is she starts crying. This demonstrates how G-Spot stimulation can be very intense for a woman. When the giving of pleasure is concluded, the couple spoon, lying side-by-side front to back, and cuddle. They also demonstrate acknowledging and thanking each other for the pleasure they have given and shared. Couples can take turns being the God/dess. While this video features a man and woman, female couples can learn from it too. The video is 65 minutes in length and is available in VHS and DVD. The price is $34.95 plus shipping. Proceeds from the sale of video help support this website. You can buy the video from NewSex.Org

Here are some suggestions for couples to try in addition to what is demonstrated in this video, based on personal experience. I always start with the woman’s back since this is the largest body structure and requires the most attention and time, and allows trust to develop prior to her vulnerable front side being exposed to your touch. The buttocks are surprisingly sensitive areas for many women so do not neglect them. Always maintain physical contact by leaving at least one hand in contact with her body at all times, whenever possible. As the body becomes lubricated with massage oil, increase the size of the connecting strokes to the point you start at her toes and travel up the full length of her body to the tips of her fingers while doing both sides of her body at once, return to her toes, and repeat two to three times, perhaps doing this several times during the massage as you change positions and body areas. Pay special attention to her feet, hands, and face. Have situational awareness; be sensitive to temperature changes, her comfort, level of background noise/music, and distractions. It requires two hours for me to give an erotic massage, the first hour, if not more, is spent relaxing, building trust, and connecting. This activity requires couples to schedule time for each other, and is suitable for persons of all ages, experience level, and sexual orientations.

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The Best of Vulva Massage: An Anthology of Erotic Touch

This is an exceptional video that presents a collection of video segments, from eight full-length videos, that explore female sexual pleasure. Each segment features diverse information, techniques, and methodologies of massaging the vulva, vagina, and G-Spot. It presents a variety of techniques rather than one, so you are exposed to and learn many potential ways of giving your female partner, or yourself, pleasure. You will spend many hours trying and perfecting all the different techniques demonstrated. You see numerous vulvas, orgasms, multiple orgasms, sustained orgasms, and female ejaculation. Annie Sprinkle is shown having a five minute sustained orgasm. It features male/female and female couples, a female threesome, a pregnant woman, solo vulva massage, people of all ages, and a woman of African decent. Topics addressed include connecting touch, tantra, communication, permission, guidance, eye contact, vocalization, labial massage, emotional release, G-Spot Stimulation, and genital examination. The video segments were taken from these eight videos, Celebrating Orgasm, Tantric Journey to Female Orgasm, Ancient Secrets of Sexual Ecstasy, Fire in the Valley, Pelvic-Heart Integration Part 2, Tantric Massage Video, Ageless Desire, and Sluts & Goddesses. There is a small video catalog of videos after the closing credits, including those that address male genital massage and masturbation. Video is 65 minutes in length. Proceeds from the sale of this video help support this website. Available from The-Clitoris.com.

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Fire in the Valley: An Intimate Guide to Female Genital Massage

This enlightening video demonstrates more than thirty massage strokes for the vulva, labia, clitoris, vagina, and G-Spot. It is narrated by Annie Sprinkle and Joseph Kramer, but the dialog is short and to the point. It features a male/female couple when she is seven months pregnant, a young female couple, and a woman of African decent alone. Topics addressed are needs and desires, full body massage, breathing, vocalization and sounds, connecting, lubrication, and communication. Having your partner hold and guide your hand during the massage is demonstrated, as is the use of a Hitachi Magic Wand in three scenes. Strong orgasms are evident during a scene with the female couple. Video is fifty-five minutes in length. Proceeds from the sale of this video help support this website. Available from The-Clitoris.com.

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