Shared Female Masturbation Techniques and Experiences: Collection 20

Sammy

I'm 15 and I've been masturbating since I was 11. I usually do it when I'm like 'Oh God I'm in a good mood I'm so masturbating when I get home.' I only like to do it at night but once..My dad and my brother went out to the beach so I turned some music on low in my room and turned up the air conditioning and pulled off my pants.

Slowly is better.

And I only like to finger myself; the nipples shit doesn't work with me.

But my belly button is fun to toy with. It's better to lay on a flat surface and an enclosed area. I would slide my fingers down my stomach and down to my clit.

[This would make me wet and tingly with goose bumps]

And then I would slowly rub around my clit and inside, gradually getting faster.

And I would spread my legs more. And it's better if you don't have anyone there because then you can orgasm without having people hearing. Then Faster and Faster Until your almost there, but its much more pleasurable if you keep the 'almost there' feeling the longest you can, so I would let it rest for just the tiniest split second, and then continue rubbing my clit. Then once you get there, it best to just lay there and breathe. And maybe hug a stuffed animal..

Laura

I can't believe I'm relating this, but I lay on my bed legs apart with two fingers deep inside me, dormant there. Then I stroke my clit gently at first with my other hand, building to a frenzied rhythm. Then as I feel it intensify I finger myself with the two fingers prodding deep with the same rhythm, usually producing a very pleasurable orgasm

Anonymous

I masturbate using a shower-head. It takes me at least 5-10 minutes to get off, but the country I live in is in a drought and we have water restrictions. Two minutes is the longest we should be in the shower. Everything builds up and I get so sexually tense until I spend a little too long in the shower.

It makes me feel so guilty but so worth it.

Tori

I LOVE masturbating!!! I love watching others masturbate, men AND women. One of my fantasy patterns is imagining other people masturbating in private, and how they really go for it to get themselves off, when they know they are alone. I have wondered if I have a masturbation fetish, but it's not the only way I can get off. I just REALLY love it!! When I try to figure out why, I wonder if it's from knowing that my brothers did it (I never SAW them, but I could hear them in their room or the bathroom, and I saw their magazines). But, I was the oldest child, and was masturbating long before my brothers did, and I think it was an electrifying turn on knowing that other people did it too.

Toni

Hello, my name is Toni. I am 17 years old and I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember, but I would lose the feeling quickly. I just recently started having the best sex of my life because I am more in touch with my sexuality, with my new found sexuality I have actually found a technique where the feeling lasts longer and its stronger. Now that I have meet such a good guy, and me and him have such incredible sex, I decided to take the idea of being completely relaxed and concentrating on how horny I am and what makes me wet that I realized I like to play with my tits, especially rubbing my nipples with my spit then. I like to lick my fingers, then use those fingers to stroke my clit up and down. Then I continue licking my juices while I stoke my clit and tits. Then before you know it I get that contracting feeling in my pussy, then I rub really fast until I come and its the best feeling you could ever imagine.

Ava

I'm 17 and I'm in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I keep in "touch" through phone sex, picture messaging and make mini movies of each other masturbating, that we have just started sending each other.

To be honest I love watching him masturbate, it gets me so wet and I learn how to give him the best hand job ever. But regardless, I love watching him masturbate while I do. I rub my clit, tug it. Recently I sat on the floor in the shower and put my legs around the commode. I then inserted a clean electric toothbrush inside of me (the batteries ran out) and my new tooth brush on my erect clit. While I ride the commode the electric brush sends me into multiple orgasms over and over again. I then switch it off and pound the already well lubricated toothbrush until I achieve another orgasm. As I have read most of the women masturbate I do too. My boyfriend knows about it but not how much and doesn't know what with. But it's pure satisfaction. I also watch porn videos if I find it hard to cum. Usually double penetration videos are the most thrilling. Anal is not my thing but I wont rule it out. I love masturbating!

Happy masturbating ladies!

Janet

I'm a 60 year old grandmother who masturbates twice a day, every single day. I have large breasts with dark, swollen areolas which are very sensitive. I am able to reach a tit and put it in my mouth. I suck on the enlarged nipple, making lewd noises as I chew on it obscenely. By that time I feel my pussy dripping and leaving the tit free, I cup my cunt with one hand, move around a bit, then with my index and middle finger, I start masturbating my vulva very fast, while one hands squeezes both tits so that my nipples are touching each other and are so long and elongated they look like pencils. I make noises which excites me a lot, then climax powerfully. I enjoy porn tremendously and adore looking at chubby women and older women, mainly my fetish is vaginal hair on women. I also masturbate on my desk while surfing the net. I am a widow for a long time and have my needs like any other woman.

Alexia

At first, I felt guilty about masturbating but the more I did it and the more people I met who did it, the better I felt.

Usually, I start by thinking about something sexy, like making out or having sex. When I know I'm all alone, I start applying lotion to myself up and rubbing my breasts. A lot of times I like to look at my breasts in the mirror. I pinch and flick my nipples. Then I get in bed. Ideally, I'm naked on top of the covers. I rub my breasts more and then stroke down my stomach to my pussy. I lick my fingers and open myself up and start stroking. I like to get very, very wet first. The more wet I get, the more I spread it over my clit. A lot of times I stroke my vulva up to my clit, harder and harder. Then I usually spread my lips with my outer fingers on both hands and with my two pointer fingers, I rub my clit with one hand while pressing it against the other finger. I go faster and faster and sometime I alternate with rubbing my vulva. Lately, I've taken to sometimes putting something into my vagina while I play with my clit.

The more I feel the orgasm come on, the more I moan. A lot of times, I like to pump my hips and start moaning and gasping. I spread my legs a lot.

I like it a lot.

Anonymous

I take a very round toothbrush and have sex with it. Make sure you put tons of Vaseline on the tooth bush. Feels amazing with tons of orgasms.

It is okay to use petroleum based products on your vulva but there is increased risk of infection if you use them inside your vagina. It is best to use water based lubricants inside your vagina if possible.

Lola

I have just finished masturbating now, and experienced orgasm in my panties after reading some of these stories which made me so horny.

The first masturbation experience I can remember must have been when I was around 5. I was in the bathroom and I had just gone wee and the sensation was so nice I started to touch my pussy when my mum walked in and caught me, she told me to stop being naughty, and I can remember it being so embarrassing. I "thought" I would never do it again.

I let a little while pass but after that I got real imaginative and started trying out new things, which included playing around with the boys next door under the house, rubbing creams all over my pussy (which I got out of the bathroom cabinet, and when I think about it now is really silly considering I didn't know what they were and it could have been something dangerous).

Me and my sister also played touchy feely games under the sheets, but I always remember her making me eat her pussy but she never quit returned the favor :-/ I also remember that from quite young age I would fantasize about getting raped, and having a big strong man take me and have his way with me, I still fantasize about that to this day.

I had a girlfriend when I was 12 and she was my first French kiss, we would send each other secret notes in class saying what time we would meet up in the girls toilets to practice kissing, which soon developed into eating each other out and petting each other with our Barbies at sleep overs

We also had a pet dog which I would call to my room to lick my pussy, but only when no one was home. It felt so good cause he could go real fast and hard and deep into my hole, I know it's sounds sort of gross but at the time you just do what feels good. My mum also walked in on me when I was with the dog and that could be my one and only regret.

I am now 21 and still have a healthy masturbating lifestyle, but these days its more low key, just mostly rubbing my clit at night, playing with the shower-head (which, I might add has given me the most amazing, deep, intense orgasms ever!!!) and just getting down and dirty with my vibrator.

Rebecca

I have been masturbating forever it seems. There are so many ways. The one that I have known since I was a young girl and found it to be the best for me. I would lay on my bed playing with my nipples and the more I would rub them between my thumb and first finger the more aroused I would get. After a while I would feel a good sensation down between my legs. I would keep playing with my nipples and with my other hand start rubbing between my legs. The more I rubbed the better it would feel not only between my legs but pleasure radiating throughout my whole body and the wider I spread my legs apart. When I feel myself getting wet I put a finger in my vagina. I put it in and out over and over again; I did not realize I was mimicking a penis thrusting. The better it felt the deeper I would insert my finger and then two fingers as I was going in and out. I would stop deep inside and start massaging inside and ooo what a feeling. I curve my fingers up and massage inside pushing up on my pelvis bone not too hard but firm and what a feeling. I take about 30 minutes to do this. As I am massaging the inside the heel or palm of my hand rubs my clit as I still play with my nipples switching back and forth and then all the sudden what excitement I start to orgasm and as I am experiencing orgasm a whole lot of juices flow out and I can hardly breath and when I am done I am exhausted and just lay there in ex-ta-see. The only bad thing is I need to change my sheets because they are soaked. I have talked with my friends about getting so wet they tell me I pee myself. If I do it sure feels wonderful. Since then I have talked with my doctor and she told me I ejaculate and not pee when I do that. So I have learned to put a couple of large towels under me. I would not give up this way of masturbating for nothing.

Hannah

I know this might sound a little weird, but I've found that having had my first vaginal exam has really helped me when it comes to masturbation.

As a virgin, I expected my first visit to a gynecologist to be painful. And it was. Plus he was kind of rough with the speculum. During the exam I felt this sharp "pinch" sensation around my vaginal opening. It hurt like the dickens and I bled afterwards. I noticed later that my opening had increased in size from what it was before.

I started to notice a change when I masturbated right away. I had so much more "feeling" around the vaginal opening than I did before. And I could put more pressure on it than I could in the past. Suddenly my vaginal opening became just as sensitive as my clit. Maybe even more so. It was sooo weird. But I really like it.

When I masturbate now I like to rub my clit and clench my PC muscles. When the clit sensation pulls me over the edge, I take my hand away and concentrate on my PC muscles. Then I start to feel an orgasm building around my vaginal opening. It's out of this world. The best type of orgasm I've ever experienced. Much better than anything I had when I had a full hymen. I don't know why, but there's just so much more sensation between my legs now.

I know some girls would be upset at a gynecologist popping their cherry. But really, what's there to be upset about? So I no longer have physical "proof" that I'm a virgin. BIG DEAL. With the way people talk about the hymen, you'd think it was some sort of present wrapped with a pretty little bow. "To be given to a man when the time is right" or something.

MY BODY IS MY BODY. IT DOESN'T BELONG TO ANYBODY ELSE.

Besides, I'd rather have better orgasms any day of the week.

Jam

I am 12. I have been masturbating since I was 6. My mom got one of those massaging chairs and I would feel so good. My mom and dad would give me weird looks. I didn't care though. After a year or two it broke. For three years the only thing I would do is hump things. But that did nothing. Later, my mom got a back massager for a gift. I would take it and use it every night. but that broke. And I found a foot massager and I use it. The only thing I can use are things that vibrate which makes me a little sad. Oh well!

Anonymous

Hey lol I hope my mum doesn't come on this site! But I started to masturbate when I was about 6-7. I can't remember how I did but I did! I would lie (on my stomach) on a floor or bed and put my hands on my clitoris and move my hands around and with my legs up in the air ...I had my first ever orgasm! I used that technique until I started grade seven and I came home from school, and was looking through my mum's draws when I found this BIG vibrator it was a huge penis and just like little fingers at the bottom ...there was new batteries in it -lucky me =D..I pulled down my trousers and pants and put the "two fingers" on my clitoris and within minutes a muscle tensing feeling went through my whole body, it felt amazing! And I had to put it away but every night when I came home from school I would use it until the batteries ran out! My mum never used it though :p It felt like mine :D But I was having a bath in 8th grade when the water came on full blast, I got into a body position and my clitoris just felt happy like sunshine, until I realized I almost overflowed the bath. I never really penetrated myself because I would rather save the pain for my partner, although I really wanted a g-spot experience. I have had times when I have kissed girls and stuff but I am not a lesbian! I get wet just thinking about steamy sex with a hunky guy :P Thanks for listening ! But the Rampant Rabbit is a best buy!!!

Batavia

Hi, I am 32. I have been masturbating since I was 12. What usually turns me on is to think about a girl or girls. Like teaching a younger girl to masturbate... Recently I have been thinking about the very sexy young woman who gave me a full bikini wax the other day. As I was standing in front of her, my legs opened, totally naked, she was being so gentle but I could not stop thinking that she was taking pleasure rubbing around my vagina and anus.

My husband has been asking me to masturbate in front of him, for him it is a turn on. I totally understand it is a turn on for me to watch girls doing it. But knowing that he is watching dose not do it for me. Maybe through this -if he reads it- I am already starting doing it in front of him...

Micki

I am 15 years old and stumbled upon this site while looking up knowledge on sexual pleasure, for myself and so I can teach my boyfriend. I am no longer a virgin--something I am not too proud of, though not because I didn't love the boy, but because now I can't give anyone else who I'll be with for a long time the opportunity to take my virginity. I feel a little dirty through that loss of virginity, partly because I was 12 when it happened, and because my boyfriend now is a virgin--I feel like I'm denying him something he deserves, even though that's not the case. He also knows the difference between "fucking" and "making love" (which both vary by personal opinion I think) and this makes me feel worse because he wants to make love, and I don't think I'll be "tight" enough for him (he's not very big, and has almost never masturbated due to his environmental expectations at home and around him). I would like to know if the feeling of being "dirty" and "used" even though I wasn't, because I initially asked for it, is normal for girls to feel.

As for masturbating, I've explored my body when younger, though I can't say I've ever actually had a session of it until I was about 11. Ever since, I've masturbated, on my belly in bed. I play with my tits for awhile, then remove my panties or just act like they aren't there and enter both hands in the front of them. I spread my legs apart and my wrists rest below the space from my bed to my pelvic area, which is lifted up just enough, since I opened my legs. I use my right index finger to flick my clit side to side at different pressures, and hold my lips open with all remaining fingers of both hands except for the pinky of the left hand (I open myself at different widths as well, seeing what feels better at the moment; I have very thick lips and a "fat" clit).

I visualize other girls pleasuring me, or my boyfriend, and (I think I'm weird for this) lesbian hentai. Once I'm wet, I let it naturally work down to my clit, which I'd continued to touch. Upon orgasm, I become very tired since I change pace a lot during masturbation and it lasts so long, and I love the feeling of letting all that pressure go and my juices going everywhere. On top of that, I really just like the feeling of getting horny; feeling my clit swell and my nipples get hard. I also enjoy it when my boyfriend fingers me and massages my G-spot, as I like the "pee feeling" I get from it.

Anonymous

Leg exercises have really helped me when it comes to masturbation. This is what I do. And would suggest other girls try.

Lay on the floor

Spread your legs as far apart as they can go.

Bring them together.

Do this multiple times in a row. I usually practice for around twenty minutes at a time. A couple of times a day works well.

Mix this up with other leg work, like stretching you legs up towards your head or from side to side.

When I first started doing this, I noticed a change in only a few weeks. I had much more sensation in my privates and orgasms felt AMAZING. I could also have more climaxes than I could before. It also helps if you sit with your legs braced against the wall. As you orgasm, flex your legs against the wall. I feel intense feelings in my vagina when I do this. You've just gotta try it.

Another fun thing to do is to take a flexible, plastic bookmark and use it as an anal sex toy. (Not for penetration, of course.) I like to take one and press the end of it against my anus, bending it towards myself. Than I take one or two fingers and tap it repeatedly against my anal opening. I love it because it feels like there's something in my vagina when I do this.

I wish I could tell you that the leg thing has helped me with sex. But I'm actually celibate. STD's are a huge concern with me. There's all of this scary new information coming out every day. Just recently I read that condoms don't really protect 100% against HPV because guys who are infected carry the STD all over their genitals, not just their penis....I guess that would explain why it spreads like wildfire. Doesn't it?

I just wish I could trust a guy getting a STD test before sex...If it wasn't for all those jerks who go out and cheat, bringing home who knows what.

Since when did sex become a game of Russian Roulette?

An article I found indicates the use of condoms reduces the risk of HPV transmission by 70%, but that means they aren't 100% effective. Using condoms is far better than not using them.

Jamie

For the longest time I thought I was the only person who masturbated using something between my legs and rubbing. I am a virgin and I don't like putting things inside of me, yet. But I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember. I remember my sister showing me one time when we shared rooms, she just said it felt good and I could try either using the palm of my hand and rubbing myself or putting a pillow between my legs and rubbing and rubbing. I love rubbing. (I am doing it now as I type) I love the pressure it creates inside my tummy and the tingling in my thighs and between my legs. I love the way my nipples harden as I rub and I can feel them, so hard, against the inside of my night gown. I pretty much would rub up against anything I could find too. My bed, my blankets, my pillows, my stuffed animals, the stairs, the couch, the door. I even like to rub against the inside of my pants, or the desks at school. I love the sounds it makes when my vulva rubs against things, or the squishy sound it makes when its wet. I masturbate all the time and can't imagine my life without it. I silently thank my sister for teaching me those "tricks."

I fantasize about watching a man masturbate all the time. I want to see what its like. I fantasize about women too. I wonder what it would be like to rub my spot against theirs, as though their vulva was my pillow. I don't know if I could ever do it though. I fantasize about oral sex. I want to try it, but idk[?] if I could top masturbating.

We soon will see...

Holly

I can't wait to be alone, I just love to touch myself all the time! When my husband is at work I close all the curtains and put my laptop on. I take off all my clothes and put my silk dressing gown on, as the feel of it rubbing against my nipples is out of this world. I read forced sex stories on the internet and look at photos of doctors and their patients! I love to look at girls, who have completely shaved, being fingered by their doctors. It's my ultimate fantasy and gets me so wet I can hardly control myself. I play with my nipples, rubbing them round and round in circles although I have to admit it's so much nicer when my husband is sucking them hard. I am pregnant and love to think that I'm squirting milk while he is sucking them! I quickly move my hand down to my clitoris and get rubbing. The build up of looking at these photos has got me going so much that within seconds I am having a mind blowing orgasm. I always try to give myself another one afterwards but find that the first one is always so intense I cannot touch my clitoris for ages afterwards. But I guess it's quality not quantity!

Ginnifer

All I do is sit on my bed, spread my legs, and rub. Rub anywhere, just as long as you start to feel this little tingling. Then if you feel the tingle, rub faster down on your vulva. I have never cumed before but have come so close it is not even funny. Good luck!!

Tina

Hi, my name is Tina and I am almost 15 years old.

To be honest, I can't really remember the first time I touched myself. It's been a couple of years now, but my methods tend to remain the same, although right now I'm looking at other ways to pleasure myself.

The most common way I pleasure myself is to sit down in my shower and remove the vibrating shower head from it's holder. I'll then usually proceed to putting it on the lowest setting it has and holding it about 4 or 5 inches away from my clit, doing this for about 15 minutes (although sometimes I do this for 5 minutes to an hour). I'll then imagine myself with my current crush-on forcefully on top of me or pleasuring me from behind with her fingers and licking or kissing my neck (yes, I'm a lesbian), and I'll put the shower head on harder setting on my clit while I stick two or three fingers from my left hand into my vagina. By the time I'm on the hardest setting my hips will usually be thrusting hard against it, and I'll be moaning or screaming from the pleasure.

Sometimes it's nice, when I'm extremely horny, to imagine my current crush using extreme forms of bondage on me, or rape. When I do imagine this, I usually have two rubber exercise bands strapped around the lips of my vagina, pulling them apart and sticking something large (usually a plastic bottle) into my vagina and pulsing it in and out.

Very rarely do I masturbate on my bed, whether it be face up or down, since I usually feel very dirty afterwards. But, this is also the only way that I can bring myself to lick my cum-covered fingers, which I've grown to love very much.

Love Tina

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I think this site is great...it makes me feel really hot and horny and I like to bring myself to orgasm and rub my clit while reading the stories. I am 16. When I go to bed every night I rub my clit and make myself really wet...Then I orgasm...sometimes 2 or 3 times! Last week I was in a hotel room alone and decided to strip off. I stood up and put one leg on the toilet and started to rub my clit rapidly. It was the first time I had an orgasm standing up..I nearly fell but it was heavenly!!

Candy

To give myself an orgasm I stick my index and my ring finger into my pussy and dunking them in there until I cum and I just lick the cum off my fingers.

Maria

I started masturbating at the age of 3. I remember it felt really good. I have a hearing impairment so I would never hear my mother walk in. She would stand there and watch me hump my pillows until I orgasmed. I remember feeling the "need" to finish. I explained that to her. My mother could be cruel and controlling. She would deliberately stop me from "finishing." I remember my clitoris would ache. She thought it was funny. Only to have me lay in her bed and she would rub it for me. Causing me to have intense orgasms. I never regretted it. She is my mother and whatever she said goes. I don't orgasm to regular sex with my husband. We play father daughter roles it makes my orgasms strong. Or we would have sex in public where people can watch. I would scream out, I'm cumming!" and people would turn their heads in time to see my face flush an my eyes role to the back of my head.

Lous

I masturbate pretty much every day... I tend to squeeze my legs together to stimulate and then I touch myself and rub my clitoris.

Oh Billy, Billy, Billy...Look what you've done to me.

This is a great site...I used to think I was strange because I thought I was alone....So I will tell my story so all the 14 year olds out there can read this....I could never admit to any of this up until recently...But, I'm 39 now and finally decided to open up about it and recently told a lover I had in December that I love to use my toys! Word of advice....If you want a man to respect you and still feel confident about himself, NEVER, EVER tell a man about your masturbation right away like I did...or for that matter never tell a man period, unless you've been married a number of years and you've squealed and moaned for him and told him he's the sex god of the universe first! Then you know he can handle it, but it's really hard to tell with men, it's better not to let them know...Anyway, this guy was 39 also and I thought he was mature enough and thought he could handle it, he seemed so confident...I was wrong....I told him I love to masturbate and he got all tense! He immediately thought he had competition to deal with, then kept questioning me about it and then he got a huge complex out of it! Felt like he couldn't please me, etc...Oh God, It was awful, I had to explain to him how normal it was, and that a battery-operated toy could never replace a man, but he just couldn't accept what I did...Anyway, who cares!

I started masturbating in high school about age 14. Actually a boy helped me out, my first boyfriend "Billy". "Billy" was 15, and taught me almost everything when I was 14. He taught me how to French kiss, and we used to meet at the park after school where he kissed me..Then he used to sneak into my bedroom in the wee hours of the morning through my bedroom window, climb into bed with me, then sneak his fingers down into my pajamas and kept kissing and fingering me. He would finger me for what seemed like forever, and I loved every minute of it, but never did it myself..We never had sex, that was forbidden for me still, because I wanted to stay a virgin, and it seemed like fingers seemed so innocent....So every time I saw Billy, that's what we did. Kiss and finger. Then I lost touch with Billy because I moved away later in the year, and I had to figure out what he did that made it feel so warm and make me wiggle down there. So I grabbed a carrot one day and tried that, didn't feel too great, too cold and too hard. Then I tried a banana, much better than a carrot, softer, so I used them for awhile..It was so easy, just go into the kitchen at night and grab my late night banana! The banana skin was rubbery, so I'd wash it first, but you have to choose a banana that doesn't have a very rough end, sometimes you have to cut the end off, but then the banana falls apart faster...Problem with bananas, after several minutes of thrusting it into my vagina, it gets really slippery and very hard to hold and sometimes it would hurt and it would get squishy and I'd have to throw it away...So about a year later, I moved up to a cucumber and felt like I'd graduated! Cucumbers are cold too, but if you pick the right one, they have perfect girth! And they don't get squishy either. However, too big of a cucumber can be painful. Alas, found a new friend. So I stuck with the produce department for awhile, even tried squash! Naw! Cucumbers are it....Still I never mentioned my hobby, not even to my best friend..We just talked about boys all the time.

Then when I moved away when I was older, in my twenties and I started working at a company and one of my co-workers was very open about her sexuality and I was inspired by her lack of inhibition one day and she took me to an adult store and encouraged me to buy those eggs...I did buy them, and they are interesting..Basically there are two, and they vibrate...you can put one inside the vagina and use the other to rub the clit. I enjoyed that for while, then got bored with it because I missed thrusting something inside. So then on another visit to the adult store, I went with another friend and she took it upon generous self to buy me my first dildo....She was trying to help me overcome my inhibitions...I was so nervous, but we were laughing constantly. I didn't want to buy the big angry looking ones that look like they fell off an abnormally large black man or a horse!..Those are scary looking! I don't know who can fit those anyway! So instead that day, I got a pink one that look like a Chinaman...It was awesome! It was $50 and well worth every penny. 6 inches long and the perfect 2 inch girth, just wide enough to cause pleasure from the walls of my vagina from feeling the friction, not too big...A few Duracells later, this thing wiggled, twisted, turned and vibrated and I finally found ecstasy. I got addicted to my little Chinaman dildo and used it daily. Now I don't know whatever I did with that Chinaman, it's gone, cuz that was about 8 years ago. But believe me, I have a new friend...This time I just have a regular 7 inch Slim Jim (that's what I call them), then it has a rubber sleeve over it that looks and feels exactly like a penis, except it's always hard. Most of the time I just use the big soft tip and circle and tickle my clit with it and dip shallow into my vagina, then rub the sides of my labia...It's absolute ecstasy minutes of this teasing and I'm throbbing and then have to finish myself with a final thrusting! Works every time, then I'm wiped out....till next time.

Anonymous

I like to lay in the shower (on my back) and spread my legs, and let a jet-stream of water hit my clitoris. It feels SO GOOD! I love it, and it is even more fun if you massage your clit, in an up and down motion, slowly at first and then as fast as you can! It is really fun if you have someone in the shower with you, such as a girlfriend, or boyfriend, but my favorite is my husband! Everyone should try this it gives you a feeling that you would never imagine!

Anonymous

I grew up in a very traditional household where "good people" were not that into sex. Sex was supposed to be a tiny, tiny thing in life. More for the foolish and immature than for "real" adults. My mother, my sole caregiver, had had bad dealings with men in the past. She disliked both sex, men, and women who liked them. Going through high school with her was a living hell. I was told over and over again how bad men were. Not to mention her views of sex.

Masturbation was also not approved of in my house. It was considered both harmful and utterly disgusting. I was told that it was sexual abuse of the self. I felt like I sick person for masturbating or for having sexual thoughts at all. Even today I still feel like a dirty individual no matter how much I tell myself otherwise. I cannot have sex with men because I cannot escape the sexual shame and "lowliness" I have felt for so long.

About a week ago I went to an adult store and purchased a five inch dildo. I have not used it in any way to masturbate. I'm not sure if I can. But it's such an empowering feeling to know that it's there. To actually have something "adult" of my own. I felt for so long that my sexuality was something outside of my control. The day that I bought my new "little friend" I felt so good about myself. It wasn't really about sex, orgasm, masturbation or anything like that. It was about doing something sexual for ME.

Now if I could just muster up the courage to masturbate with a dildo, I think I'd be doing much better as a whole.

Anonymous

I'm 22 and found this site a few months ago. I really like to lay in bed with my lap top and read about other people's masturbation techniques while I masturbate. I get wet the second I start reading. I started masturbating around 4 or 5 but I always felt dirty. I think around the time I was 8 or 9 one of my friends and I started touching each other when we spent the night together. I never reached orgasm but we rubbed each others clits and it felt sooo good. I'm not a lesbian but I love to fantasize about other women touching me and I usually masturbate by putting a bullet sized vibrator on my clit and reading through this web site. I place it between my lips so it stays put and try to hold off from cumming as long as possible. I have tried to ejaculate but I never can although I usually end up having a really intense orgasm. My favorite way to masturbate is to put one vibrator in my anus and another on my clit or sometimes I rub it with my fingers. I get really wet and circle around my clitoris occasionally rubbing over it until I can't stand it anymore. I fantasize about another woman touching me while I'm tied down to a bed until I cum.

Dana

Well this sound sick but I will tell you about it. I am now 14 but this started when I was about 6. When I was bad my dad would spank on my bare bottom. I liked it but I did not know why .. I would press my muffin against his knee while he was spanking me.. This felt very good.. And it got where I would do bad things just to get a spanking... Now that I am older he does not spank me anymore... I wish he would... Now I rub my muffin on the bed post and slap myself on my bottom till it get off.. I can only do this when no one is home ..cause it get too noisy ...

Anonymous

I am 14 and masturbate more then once a day, I like to use the shower head and luckily both my parents work until about 6-7 at night so moaning isn't any trouble.

Kayleen

I began to mastubate when I was 13. I had just started my period and it felt itchy down there. We never talked about sex in our house and as it felt itchy so I started to scratch/rub. It felt great and I continued to do it. I started to feel like I really needed to pee, but I knew I didnt, so I kept rubbing. It felt so good. I wasnt sure what was happening to me, I started to shake, but I couldn't stop. I felt a feeling building up inside me, it was really weird. I kept going and it felt like I exploded, but it felt fantastic. I was really wet and it felt great. I masturbate about 5 or 6 times a day now and it feels fantastic. I have had sex with guys but I never get a feeling like that. I don't orgasm during sex.

Lara

Hi there, I figured, after learning so much from this wonderful website I should definitely make a contribution. I've seen many, many techniques posted here, from water to climbing, from humping to fingering. However, I haven't seen my technique. I suppose though, it is quite out of the ordinary. I began masturbating, if you could call it that, around the age of 7, by just rubbing the smooth skin (which progressed to be soft hair) of my pelvic area, as some sort of comforting thing. I can only imagine how embarrassed my Mom would have been in public, where my hand was constantly in my pants. I know it sounds perverted, but it was completely innocent at the time. Still, after all the funny looks, I eventually stopped and forgot about it altogether. Now, at 12, I discovered this website, and, with it, my clit. My favorite technique, now, is to strip naked (though if pressed for time/privacy, I'll only take my pants/underwear off) and begin my caressing my tender nipples. By now, they should be erect, whether through cold or arousal, and I'll move down to my clit with my left (dominant) hand, and continue to 'play' with my right. With my index finger, I will gently tap the upper tip of my clit while lying on my back. Gradually, it becomes larger, and I move down to the far sid, just past the tip, and press harder, and faster, still tapping. Eventually, I'll hit my magic spot, and shudder and moan as reach the climax of my pleasure. I am now pressing the underside of my clit harder and rapidly, until it's too much, and I fall back exhausted. I have never been able to reach full orgasm through this technique, but it brings me so close in such a short amount of time, and so efficiently, it is by far my favorite. I would absolutely love to have this posted on your website, I hope others will find pleasure through my technique. Once again, thank you sooo much for this fantastic website, good luck, and goodbye.

PS. I was wondering if anyone also finds themselves absent-mindedly stroking their pelvic area (where the majority of the pubic hair grows)?

Amber

When I was about 4 I learned that the plastic nose on my teddy bear felt so good pressed against my pussy. I would lay on top of my bear's face with my hands underneath him holding him as tight towards me as possible and point my feet towards the air. I would start slowly rocking and humping him until I wouldn't be able to stop, and I'd frantically hump the hard plastic tip until it "tickled". I showed my mom my neat trick, and she told me that I wasn't allowed to do it anymore. I couldn't stop myself and "squeezed bear" until I was 12 or 13. I don't know what happened to him, but I would give anything to squeeze him right now. Thinking of other girls doing this is making me really horny. I am going to try to find something to use now, and read some more of your stories. My pussy aches whenever I think of my teddy bear.

Cathy

I love to masturbate in front of a mirror with my legs restrained in some way. Sometimes I sit very erect on the bathroom counter facing the mirror with my knees up and legs apart. In this position I can see my clit engorged after I cum. I squirt baby oil on my pussy before I start masturbating. Then, I stoke my pussy with anything that tightly cups my clit. Sometimes I insert an object into my vagina while I'm stimulating my clit. I love watching my nipples in the mirror as they become hard and erect. Sometimes my pussy is shaved or there's just a little tuft. While I'm masturbating I fantasize about being naked with other people and sharing sex and our bodies freely. When I cum I can see my labia spasm and pulsate from the intensity of my orgasm.

Anonymous

The best orgasm I've ever had I got from an electric toothbrush. Three bucks and it works like a charm.

Melissa

I like to use two pairs of love eggs up my cunt and one pair in my ass. I have tried two but it hurts. Then I wear a pair of plastic incontinence pants, leg iron myself, then handcuff myself with hands in front so I can tease my hungry little cunt till I'm wet through. I will stay like this all night sometimes having numerous orgasms. Its great. Try plastic panties you will love them.

Liz

This is a very nice forum, it's good for women to talk about these things.

I'm 24 and I have always masturbated since I can remember. I always had my hand on my clitoris and used stuffed animals, similar to others.

I went through phases of what turns me on, although one consistent thing is being a virgin and having a man force me with a massive cock and that first bit of pain when he enters, then pleasure. Although I have had lesbian experiences, I never really get turned on by that, sometimes I try to imagine what it must feel like to penetrate a woman with a cock. Like your clit is a huge throbbing penis and you put it into this really tight, fleshy vagina and it rubs you over and over again until you become savage and you push into her harder and harder until, well then its over. It must be the most pleasurable experience ever. This is quite difficult and I usually end up with resentment, so I just imagine I'm blind folded and naked and three really large cocked guys come in and give me a good rough fuck. (even though I know I would not take pleasure out of this in reality) All the while I use a piece of fabric while I'm on my stomach, with my legs spread and I gyrate until I have a clitoral orgasm (never had a vaginal), they are really good and strong. I probably average three-four a day.

Wiser 38

I just wanted to write in and relate something that happened to me a while back.

For years I used vibrators to masturbate. Then one day I decided to buy a dildo. On a whim, you might say. I really knew very little about the things. I figured if they were so popular, they must be safe. I noticed first off, when I took the dong out of it's package, that it had this odd scent to it. Not a horrible odor, mind you, but certainly not the smell of something I would willingly put in my vagina. So I went online and read these articles about Phthalates (A substance found in latex rubber sex toys). I had never heard of Phthalates before. And I was amazed to find out that the smell of my new sex toy was being caused by a substance that is actually HARMFUL to my vagina! Everything I've read on latex toys makes it obvious that they must be used with a condom to keep them clean (everything in the world clings to a rubber didlo) and also to keep Phthalates from touching your skin.

Why would I want to stick something harmful into my vagina?

Next time I want to stray from vibes, I'll just get a nonplastic toy.

Silicone might be harder to come by than rubber, but I think it's the bettter buy in the long run.

Items made of silicone, stainless steel, and pyrex glass are recommended as they are nonporous and will not absorb body fluids, and don't contain potentially harmful chemicals. The less expensive rubber or plastic items are more likely to contain Phthalates.

Anonymous

I usually masturbate in the shower with the water spraying on my clitoris. But I just recently started shoving things inside myself. I like to video tape myself and watch it after. I also like to fantasize about going down on girls.

Anonymous

Yea, I'm about 16 years old and I have been getting orgasms since I was like 8! I love it. They are fun, and make me feel horny. I use furniture to rub on including the corner of my bed. Then I become very wet everywhere in my panties. I want to have sex soooooooooooooooo bad! Love the site!

Love ya!

Caroline

I had sex for the first time when I was 16. My boyfriend back then was a virgin too and it is to me a nice memory not because it was good but because I think we were really innocent. I am 21 now.

After that I always had sexual partners, some good some bad, but I never felt the need to masturbate. It wasn't anything that I was curious about and I never had the opportunity to since every time I was horny I had a guy to be with.

I just recently discovered being with myself and I'm still working on it. I have a lot of trouble reaching orgasm using only my hands. I was able to do it just a few times. Mainly it's because I have to be in the mood, in my bed, relaxed and so many things! Because I never really paid much attention to my vulva, finding this web page was like a miracle! My boyfriend adores my pussy and he pays a lot of attention to her, so being able to understand that whatever my desire is good, made me feel a lot better at playing with myself.

At first I was frustrated since I couldn't orgasm with my fingers only, so one day I grabbed a screwdriver with a handle especially fat and I wrapped it in plastic and stuck it inside. Oh my god!!! I loved it. Now when my boyfriend and I (we can't see each other very often) have phone sex I like to use it. I actually would loooove to buy a dildo, I'm just to shy to do it. Even if no one ever knows, I am too embarrassed to go to a sex shop. Just thinking of the idea of going to one of those shops and pick and buy one makes me blush, though I'm not shy about anything else!

Anyway, mainly due to my great lover and this web page I found a world of fun.

Thank you so much!!!

Hollie

I'm 13 and I've been masturbating since I was 9. You know, some people say that masturbation is wrong, but I see it as relief of sexual tension without having to worry about getting pregnant.

My favorite way to do it is to get one of my Teddy bears and rub it up and down my clit at various speeds. It's quite affective and works every time.

Jessie

My masturbation experiences started early. Sex was and still isn't talked about in my parents household. It is a taboo and very uncomfortable subject best left alone when concerning my parents. Luckily I have moved on and as a 27 year old empowered woman, I enjoy self-pleasure quite regularly. My first experiences were with friends at sleep overs when I was just 5 or 6. My friend and I would take turns lying on top of each other, grinding into each other, touching each other and sliding fingers in each other. We didn't understand why it felt good, it just did. We each passed on our experiences to other friends. By the time I was 8 I was hiding in my closet, exploring myself, and playing with a little monkey that had a big rubber pacifier sewn into his hand. I would push it in and pop it out, sometimes peeing a little. My monkey was my special friend up until junior high. When I was about 12, for Christmas my mom got me a stocking stuffer that was a pen that had a wide end to it and it vibrated. It was called a "doodle pen". When you would put the ink tip down on paper, it would draw all these crazy, swirling designs like the "Spirograph" toy. It turned out to be the best present ever. By then I sort of understood sex but I was also naive because it was so taboo in our house. I quickly learned that the pen vibrating in my hand made me damp in my panties and made me want to squirm so they rode into my pussy. One night after my parents were in bed, I went into the closet where I could here my sister having phone sex in the next room with her boyfriend. I got the nerve up to pull my panties off and quietly turn on my pen. It was dirty... It was wrong in my house... IT WAS INCREDIBLE!! After that, every day after school, I would masturbate with my pen until one day it broke. I was so sad! Along came my best friend... She got a doodle pen for her birthday. One night at a sleep over (which were almost always sexually charged because I craved the knowledge that had been denied to me) we were talking about boys and sex and everything and I said "Want me to show you something?" I took her pen and slid it under my panties. I can still remember the look on her face as I gyrated against her pen. She tried it next and we were instantly bonded. Every sleep over through high school featured the pen and progressed to touching and more. I am completely hetero but for all you ladies that fantasize about other women... Yes, it's wonderful! Everyone should experience it at least once! In fact, my friend and I still "played" 15 years later (up until about a month ago when she got married). Neither of us has ever told our boyfriends, but whenever either of has had bad sex, we know where to go for an orgasm. (Although I'm more than sure that a 3 way would blow either of their minds).

Having a sexual experience with a woman allows you to explore what you like with a gentler touch and it's easier because women know how they want to be touched and treated so they are more conscious of their friend. We have progressed from school tools to vibrators and other toys but I still have that original doodle pen. :)

Over The Hill But Not Buried Under It

When I masturbate, I usually rub my clitoral hood over my glans repeatedly. I like to do this sitting up upon the floor. As I become more aroused, I start to make more circular motions around my clitoris. I don't have the most sensitive clit in the entire world (not that I'm complaining), so I enjoy a harder stroke than what other girls might enjoy.

It seems a shame to me that so many girls don't masturbate in front of their boyfriends. I think that this is one of the highlights of the sexual experience. Not because of the guy enjoying it, but because, as a girl, nobody knows how to pleasure you the way that you do. For those who feel awkward doing the deed in front of their guy, I have some suggestions that should help you.

BLINDFOLDING! This is a great way to get into masturbating in front of a guy for the first time. He can't see you doing it. So you won't feel as self conscious about the whole thing.

DOGGY STYLE! In this position you can reach around and massage your clitoris without your guy being able to fully see you.

BEING ON TOP! You can get on top of your guy and turn around. This way you can touch yourself as much as you want without him watching you.

Though I would only suggest these things aa a way of working yourself up to doing it in front of your guy. Having him see is pretty hot too.

Even though it might be a little off topic, I also have some other little hand tips for girls just starting out.

Lay down on the couch with your legs flung over your guys lap. Massage yourself while he watches. When your about to come let him place one finger (or two) inside of your vagina. Make sure he doesn't start moving his fingers around. Then thrust yourself upon his finger until you orgasm....I think so often girls just lay there during getting fingered. Hoping that the guy (who's usually as inexperienced as they are) is able to somehow "give" them an orgasm. I think a guys finger should be used like a dildo. Things go much better that way.

Another thing I would like to share is advice for the first time. It REALLY helps if your first time is with you on top. This way you can control how fast things go and you don't end up laying there, gritting your teeth, while your guy pounds away to his hearts content. (I love guys, but sometimes you just have to accept they aren't exactly geniuses when it comes to detecting pain) Wrap one hand around the shaft your boyfriends penis, then rub his glans around your vulva. Get use to the feel of a guys package against your parts. Rub him in a circular motion around your clitoris. Than move down to your vaginal opening. (USE PLENTY OF LUBE) When you're ready, place his glans a little bit at a time inside of you.

This is where having your hand around your guy's penis comes in handy. You should never allow your guy to thrust upward at any moment, remember, this should be at your pace, not just his. I would also suggest doing this several times before actual intercourse. This little practice is also a good way to detect the sexual nature of the guy that you are with. You deserve to be with a guy who understands your sexual needs and does not think solely of himself.

It seems a shame to me that so many girls give themselves sexual pleasure when they're alone, but give up seeking their own pleasure once their with a mate. Then it becomes HIS job to give them an orgasm. And they hope blindly that he knows what he's doing.

As everybody knows, if you want something done right you have to do it yourself.

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